Who make us feel like a "failure"?

Who make us feel like a "Failure"?

Failure  is something we all talk about. But what exactly do you think failure is? Try to answer some questions :
how we feel failure, why we feel failure
When we feel like a failure 

  • Do you think failure is" not achieving a goal "?
  • When you are not able to achieve your goals, do you experience the same level of frustration? If "NO",why? 
  • What are the factors which Make you feel that you are a failure? 
Everyone will define the term "failure "subjectively, but one thing will be common :Not reaching to the desired goal. But we not always feel the same kind of failure. The factors that can affect the level of frustration we feel may be as given below :
  • How important the goal was, 
  • Negative consequences of not achieving the goal,
  • Positive results on achieving the goal, 
  • Feedbacks  from society. 
The last factor is the strongest to make us feel a "failure".

Who make us feel like a failure? 
how we feel failure, why we feel failure
Who make us feel like a failure 

  • We took a competitive exam trying our best. We are fully satisfied with our efforts and performance. Then, the result was declared and we could not pass it but our score is good and we know it. Of course, we are going to feel bad for some time but we cope up with the situation as we are left with no other option.So we decide to perform better✌ because we were very close to the goal. 
But the worst thing take place when the people ask you about your result again and again.We will try our best to make them understand, to be positive but as you know few people are there to motivate you. The rest of the people are doing their best to drag you behind. They are going to be successful if you take them seriously and concentrate on their negative comments. 
  • You will have to be confident, not embarrassed . After all, it is you who is to achieve the goal, then, who is given the right to comment on your efforts? The most important thing is that you didn't give up. If you have faith in your ability, definitely you'll get what you want. People laughing at you are the distractors which your should ignore😎 because they are not at all important for you. Therefore, keep going on. You're are about to reach the goal 
All the best!
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