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3D's for Success

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3D's for "Success"(dream, dare, determination) Hello friends! I know what have come to your mind reading this. No I'm not talking about that. Today I'll describe you the 3Ds for success. They are :

Dream Dare Determination  👉Dreamis important because it gives us a direction. It tells us about what we want to achieve in life. Where we should put our efforts. And why we want to get that. It will lead to self awareness  and gives us the purpose of life. Otherwise we just pass the time, nothing else. Dareis one of the essential resources to convert our dream into reality. Whenever we take a first step towards our goal, we are taking a risk, there is always a chance of failure. If have to be ready to tolerate the frustration ,tonts made by others, people laughing at us, and feeling of rejection  we have to face in our way. And for this you need a fearless mind. 👉Determination is the medicine for the situation when we feel like giving up. We have to remind us time to …

Who should be our "Role Model "?

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Who should be our "Role Model"?We all talk about our ideal or "Role Model ".But there are some questions like....  Who should be viewed as our role model? Is it necessary or helpful to make a role model? 
I think "Yes".Having a role model really helps us in growing. But the most difficult problem to solve is given in the first question.  No-one is perfect . Of course, there are people who can inspire us but in specific areas or aspect of life. What about the other aspects of life? In this way, you need a separate role model for each aspect of life which is going to be the most confusing and time consuming process. You yourself will forget which role model was for which area!😂Moreover, No two individuals are same in any way whether it is talent, environmental conditions, availability of resources, personality  and so on.... May be you have the same area of interest with your role model but everything cannot be the same. The best way to get rid of this confus…

You're a Genius

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You're a Genius 
Your ultimate goal is to explore  Your world and your role Ya! You're the one who can never be defeated  It's your way you can easily seek it  Oh! Let me tell you once again I repeat it  You're a Genius  O yeh!  You're a Genius  ❤❤❤ 
No matter...  What you are, what you were  What you wanted to be  No matter...  How many times have you failed  How many times have you succeed  Just leave it all ,keep it all away  And see that all what's waiting for you today  You're a Genius  O yeh!  You're a Genius  ❤❤❤
It's better... Move on towards your goal  And just dare and dream  It's better...  Evaluate your strengths and  Improve them to the extreme  Forget everything that makes you feel low  And get ready to just shine and glow  You're a Genius  O yeh!  You're a Genius...  ❤❤❤
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A Psychology Class

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A Psychology Class 

When you go to a Psychology class  From there, your journey starts  Sensory inputs start coming  "Perception "when you give it meaning  Processing is done in your mind  Then you can easily recognize  What you have learned so far  Can answer when questions are asked  Your mind starts exercise  When you store everything precise It is actually a mission  To improve your cognition  It has an effect  Also on your "Affect" It makes you happy  Working like a therapy  Then, accordingly you act  All the three are attached  Cognitive, Affective and Connative  Together make your behavior  All your Well-being is there... 


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A Shoulder to Cry on

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Now a days... 
We all are so busy that we are shrinking in ourselves. We feel that we need nobody.We have mobile, money, computer, technique, many friends and followers on social media through which we can entertain us, Make us happy.The conclusion we draw is that we need nobody.  Do you really feel that you need nobody? Don't you want to share your happiness  when you achieve something? Don't you need someone to motivate you when you feel low? Some people will "Not at all ".But they will get nervous saying or thinking this which means that they too know inside that they are telling a lie. You can't deny the need of a "shoulder to cry on ".Please try to be honest with yourself at least.  A shoulder to cry on We all face adversities😖 in life. We all cry :some people let you see their tears, some cry when they are alone and some will cry inside without letting anybody know it. But, we all cry. We all need a shoulder to cry on,to lean on so that we pour our…

Tendency to Trust

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Tendency to Trust How often  has it happened that you trusted someone and your trust was not kept😖? What was the impact of that on your mind ?Would you able to trust that person again? Or someone else? There are two situations : Trusting the same person, Trusting a new person. Trusting the same person will be difficult for you as your past memories won't let you do it. May be that person doesn't want to deceive you but how can you be sure about it? You can forgive the person but can't forget your past. What you can learn from this, two things :
When you forgive a person, it will heal  you... That pain of deception  and if you will keep rendering on the past means you are not allowing the positive things to happen in your life. If you can't forget your past,😢 it will hurt "You",not someone else. Think before what you do. Things cannot be "Undo".It will have everlasting effect. You won't be able to separate you from your past doings. Trusting a ne…

Who make us feel like a "failure"?

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Who make us feel like a "Failure"?Failure is something we all talk about. But what exactly do you think failure is? Try to answer some questions :
Do you think failure is" not achieving a goal "?When you are not able to achieve your goals, do you experience the same level of frustration? If "NO",why? What are the factors which Make you feel that you are a failure? Everyone will define the term "failure "subjectively, but one thing will be common :Not reaching to the desired goal. But we not always feel the same kind of failure. The factors that can affect the level of frustration we feel may be as given below : How important the goal was, Negative consequences of not achieving the goal,Positive results on achieving the goal, Feedbacks  from society. The last factor is the strongest to make us feel a "failure". Who make us feel like a failure? We took a competitive exam trying our best. We are fully satisfied with our efforts and performa…