A Shoulder to Cry on

Now a days... 

We all are so busy that we are shrinking in ourselves. We feel that we need nobody.We have mobile, money, computer, technique, many friends and followers on social media through which we can entertain us, Make us happy.The conclusion we draw is that we need nobody. 

• Do you really feel that you need nobody? 
• Don't you want to share your happiness  when you achieve something? 
• Don't you need someone to motivate you when you feel low? 

Some people will "Not at all ".But they will get nervous saying or thinking this which means that they too know inside that they are telling a lie. You can't deny the need of a "shoulder to cry on ".Please try to be honest with yourself at least. 

A shoulder to cry on 

A Shoulder to Cry On 

• We all face adversities😖 in life. We all cry :some people let you see their tears, some cry when they are alone and some will cry inside without letting anybody know it. But, we all cry. We all need a shoulder to cry on,to lean on so that we pour our emotional floods which we are not capable of handling ourselves. We have drowned in that flood and left with no energy to swim across.
• We need someone to help us👫, to guide us whom we can trust, we can follow with a deep trust that s/he will take us out of that flood. It can be anyone; your parents, friends, spouse, teacher, a counselor, God, anyone with whom you can share anything; all your miseries, your feelings, your fears, your sadness , without any kind of hesitation.After sharing everything with that person, you will feel such a calmness  in you just like the silence after a cyclone . 

Why don't we find a shoulder to cry on? 

Why we are alone? 

A few people are so lucky to have a shoulder to cry on. But why don't we all have? We can also be responsible for that. 

• We don't value relationships💔 as we live in delusions that we need nobody. It's a myth. We take our family members, our parents, our friends, all for granted. We don't realize how much role they are playing in our life. But one day, when we realize that ,when we lose them that they were so important for us. But what's the use of that now? It's too late now, we can only repent on our stupidity and rudeness. 
• We don't trust  anyone👀. I know it's very difficult at present and risky too. But that loneliness  is also as risky as trusting. You can see the newspaper full of suicide  attempts. We think that all are selfish. If someone helps us, instead of being grateful for that ,we start running our mind in negative direction that what was the purpose of that help. 
• We want to get rid of responsibilities😏. Of course, if we have the need of other person, s/he has too. But when it comes to us we simply ignore the agony of other person and underestimate the problems of others. On the other hand, we exaggerate  our problems. Other people are not machines. They too have emotions. 

Try to pay attention on these issues, the lives of all will be much better. 

All the best! 

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