Hopes in Life

Kill the Memories Kill the Memories "Memories never Die" But they can cause us to die So tell me why? Not to say them bye But it's not an easy task As they're hidden behind a mask Disguised in experience and events Though not always relevant But having strong commitment Associated with sentiments  O your sentiments! Can kill you, don't let you heal They keep chasing you as they can feel That you're avoiding them So what to do now? Wanna get rid right now? But don't know HOW I have an idea ,wow! Kill the Memories That can kill you Choose them all... Each failure,frustration Deception,negative perception Kill them before"they kill you" Do it before it's too late No! Please don't wait Hold them tight and throw them away Don't care and change your way Don't tell them WHY Just tell them"Goodbye"! My another Blogs: 1. A Voice to Heart 2. Worldwide Haryan

You're the Person You're the Person You're the Person Who made me realize  My own existence  In the world You're the Person Who show me the way To my destination You're the Person  Who made me learn To solve my problems You're the Person Who gave me the confidence To write this poem You're the Person Who did unlimited for me Who made me positive That cannot be returned BUT still You're the Person Who gave me the courage  To present this to you... My another Blogs: 1. A Voice to Heart 2. Worldwide Haryanvi

Forgive me Life! Forgive me Life Forgive me Life! It was not You but me Who tried to cheat you Who has wasted all The precious time given by you Who has insulted  The presents given by you Who ignored the hope  you inculcated time to time But now I'm back From now... I'll never leave you I'll value you I'll enjoy your company I'll take care of you And all your presents Will be with you till the end As I love you more Please forgive me! And accompany me The same way you always did Forgive me Life! I won't repeat my mistskes My another Blogs: 1. A Voice to Heart 2. Worldwide Haryanvi

I Wake up Early I Wake up Early I Wake up Early To see the beautiful morning I Wake up Early To see the shining sun And it's smiling face From the background of leaves I Wake up early To listen the music Composed by the birds I Wake up early To smell the fresh flowers To feel the soft wind To be chilled by The dew drops on the grass I wake up early To thank God For giving one more day To live happily To feel and appreciate The beauty of nature To feel that I'm still alive And lucky enough To have this beautiful gift That is LIFE Therefore,I wake up Early... My another Blogs: 1. A Voice to Heart 2. Worldwide Haryanvi

You won't Understand You won't Understand You won't understand... Not because you don't have The emotions I have You won't understand... Not because you don't experience What I do You won't understand... Not because you're not as sensitive  As I am You won't understand... Not because you don't have the mind  That I have You won't understand... Not because you don't get the words That I speak to you JUST BECAUSE You don't want to... My another Blogs: 1. A Voice to Heart 2. Worldwide Haryanvi

It's so easy for you... It's so easy for you... It's so easy for you To judge someone Just by looking the person It's so easy for you To comment Just on a single statement It's so easy for you To hurt someone Just by ignoring a person BUT It's not easy to understand What the person feels How his situation is How hard he's living Challenges he's facing That's why you conclude Without even knowing about... My another blogs: Hindi blog: mymotive1.blogspot.com Haryanvi blog: worldwideharyanvi.blogspot.com

It's Your Choice It's Your Choice Love me or hate Criticize or appreciate It's your choice... I am as I am But how you interpret It's your choice Let me remind It's your mind  You're free to use it  In any way you wish You're free to think  Anything about me  It's your choice But whatever you  say, think or feel about me It won't disturb me  It's "My Choice"... I don't need your advice... My another blogs: Hindi: mymotive1.blogspot.com Haryanvi: worldwideharyanvi.blogspot.com

English versus Intelligence  NOTE: This article is for the students whose first language is not English but suffering for not being good at it. Do you feel bad😞 or inferior just because you are not good at communicating in English?   If  "YES" ,you are on right place because here, someone is present who can understand your situation and help you☺️ . Because you are not the only one to face this problem. There are a number of students who feel inferior just because they are weak at English although they are very talented. It has become a serious issue for the students. Here are the ways you can overcome your  inferiority   and gain  confidence  : I'm intelligent, no matter I am good at English or not  Accept that you are not less  intelligent  than anyone else. Because you have acquired at least one language. Therefore, you have the same ability to learn language.  Try to understand that English is just a language like any other language used all over

A Helping Hand  Do you remember being helped by someone in your life? Your answer will be  "YES" . How did you feel? Good? Grateful?  Would you like to help someone in your life?  If your answer is  "YES"  ,you have realized a great  virtue  of being human. You are grateful for all the help you got in your life. When we were born, we were not even able to survive. Our parents "helped "us👪 A helping hand  to grow and survive. Why we all are engaged in  helping behavior  ? The answer is: No achievement can give us such a satisfaction that we get from helping others.  It increases our self -worth that we are able to make a positive change in the lives of others. I would like to share some personal things about helping behavior. I'm an introvert having only a few number of friends.  But people around me, trust me and share their problems with me because they know I'll listen to them, understand them and definitely help them. T

3D's for "Success"(dream, dare, determination)  Hello friends! I know what have come to your mind reading this. No I'm not talking about that. Today I'll describe you the 3Ds for success. They are : 3D's for success  Dream  Dare  Determination  👉 Dream   is important because it gives us a direction.  It tells us about what we want to achieve in life. Where we should put our efforts. And why we want to get that. It will lead to  self awareness   and gives us the purpose of life. Otherwise we just pass the time, nothing else.  Dare   is one of the essential resources to convert our dream into reality.  Whenever we take a first step towards our goal, we are taking a risk, there is always a chance of failure. If have to be ready to tolerate the frustration ,tonts made by others, people laughing at us, and feeling of  rejection   we have to face in our way. And for this you need a fearless mind.  👉 Determination    is the medicine for the

Who should be our "Role Model"? We all talk about our ideal or " Role Model  ".But there are some questions like....  Who should be viewed as our role model?  Is it necessary or helpful to make a role model?  I think "Yes".Having a role model really helps us in growing. But the most difficult problem to solve is given in the first question.  No-one is  perfect  . Of course, there are people who can inspire us but in specific areas or aspect of life. What about the other aspects of life? In this way, you need a separate role model for each aspect of life which is going to be the most confusing and time consuming process. You yourself will forget which role model was for which area!😂 Moreover, No two individuals are same in any way whether it is talent, environmental conditions, availability of resources,  personality   and so on.... May be you have the same area of interest with your role model but everything cannot be the same.  Th

You're a Genius  You're a Genius  Your ultimate goal is to explore  Your world and your role Ya! You're the one who can never be defeated  It's your way you can easily seek it  Oh! Let me tell you once again I repeat it  You're a Genius  O yeh!  You're a Genius  ❤❤❤  No matter...  What you are, what you were  What you wanted to be  No matter...  How many times have you failed  How many times have you succeed  Just leave it all ,keep it all away  And see that all what's waiting for you today  You're a Genius  O yeh!  You're a Genius  ❤❤❤ It's better... Move on towards your goal  And just dare and dream  It's better...  Evaluate your strengths and  Improve them to the extreme  Forget everything that makes you feel low  And get ready to just shine and glow  You're a Genius  O yeh!  You're a Genius...  ❤❤❤ This song is also available on my u-tube channel :

A Psychology Class  A Psychology Class  When you go to a Psychology class  From there, your journey starts  Sensory inputs start coming  "Perception "when you give it meaning  Processing is done in your mind  Then you can easily recognize  What you have learned so far  Can answer when questions are asked  Your mind starts exercise  When you store everything precise It is actually a mission  To improve your cognition  It has an effect  Also on your "Affect" It makes you happy  Working like a therapy  Then, accordingly you act  All the three are attached  Cognitive, Affective and Connative  Together make your behavior  All your Well-being is there...  My another blog : mymotive1.blogspot.com

Now a days...  We all are so busy that we are shrinking in ourselves. We feel that we need nobody.We have mobile, money, computer, technique, many friends and followers on  social media  through which we can entertain us, Make us happy.The conclusion we draw is that we need nobody.  Do you really feel that you need nobody?  Don't you want to share your  happiness   when you achieve something?  Don't you need someone to motivate you when you feel low?  Some people will "Not at all ".But they will get nervous saying or thinking this which means that they too know inside that they are telling a lie. You can't deny the need of a "shoulder to cry on ".Please try to be honest with yourself at least.  A shoulder to cry on  A Shoulder to Cry On  We all face adversities😖 in life. We all cry :some people let you see their tears, some cry when they are alone and some will cry inside without letting anybody know it. But, we all cry. We all nee

Tendency to Trust  How often  has it happened that you trusted someone and your  trust  was not kept😖? What was the impact of that on your mind ?Would you able to trust that person again? Or someone else?  There are two situations : Trusting the same person,  Trusting a new person.  Trusting the same person will be difficult for you as your past memories won't let you do it.  May be that person doesn't want to deceive you but how can you be sure about it? You can  forgive  the person but can't forget your past. What you can learn from this, two things : Tendency to trust and forgive  When you forgive a person, it will  heal   you... That pain of  deception   and if you will keep rendering on the past means you are not allowing the positive things to happen in your life. If you can't forget your past,😢 it will hurt "You",not someone else.  Think before what you do. Things cannot be " Undo ".It will have everlasting effect. Y

Who make us feel like a "Failure"? Failure    is something we all talk about. But what exactly do you think failure is? Try to answer some questions : When we feel like a failure  Do you think failure is" not achieving a goal "? When you are not able to achieve your  goals , do you experience the same level of frustration? If "NO",why?  What are the factors which Make you feel that you are a failure?  Everyone will define the term "failure "subjectively, but one thing will be common :Not reaching to the desired goal. But we not always feel the same kind of failure. The factors that can affect the level of  frustration  we feel may be as given below : How important the goal was,  Negative consequences of not achieving the goal, Positive results on achieving the goal,  Feedbacks   from society.  The last factor is the strongest to make us feel a "failure". Who make us feel like a failure?  Who make us feel lik

Why You are not "You"? Do you know yourself?  Do people know you in the same way as you know yourself? Do you live your life as you want to live?  The first question   will be answered in "yes",almost by everyone, though nobody will realize that s/he is telling a lie. I'm not blaming you for this. We know ourselves to the extent we try to know. And we all know how much time we have for this in a busy life.  The second question  will be answered in "No" by almost of the people. One possible reason will be given that nobody is able to understand you. The second one, you feel proud on the way you can make fool of people (many people think so and feel happy about it; though they are not aware weather they are making a fool of people, of themselves, or are being made fool by people; that's another issue),so-called smartness you think. The third option is that you don't have the communication skills to convey to the people what kind of

A Story of "Come Back" Do you have the guts to keep your dream alive even when all the ways have been closed suddenly?  How long? Days? Months? Years?  Let me tell you a real life story of an Indian girl who fought for her dream for nine years and still continuing... Nisha Sharma  Nisha Sharma was born on October 16,1988 in a small Indian village named Ismailpur, in Jhajjar district of Haryana. She belonged to a middle class small family with her parents and a brother three years smaller than her. Everything was fine but his brother was mentally retarded due to the frequent seizures.The whole family had to pay a lot of attention to him. In this way,she had to play a parental role too. Her childhood was not happy. But she was a brave, obedient and intelligent girl,performing well in her studies. She used to stand first in her class. After eighth class, she started going to a neighbor village named Frukhnagar, on a distance about a few kilometers on cycle. She

Break the "Walls" What you mean by a wall? Do you feel that you are surrounded by the walls around you?  What kind of walls are these?  Do you have the dare to break them?  When we talk about the walls, there are some characteristics that come to your mind like walls are hard, not easy to break, you cannot see anything across the walls, and so on. You may feel impatient to know why I'm talking about the "Wallls". Break the walls:Start with a Zero We all have made many walls around us, in our mind.They are the walls like prejudices and  stereotypes  about some caste, religion, gender, race, a particular culture. They are very hard to break. We can't see across them which means we are not ready to accept the positive in the person,  culture ,  religion  etc. about which we have made a mental set negatively. These walls narrow our minds; we burry all our natural goodness,curiosity,courage and  humanity   under these walls.  How these walls

When you love...  "Love" is such a topic we all are interested in.Why? Have you ever thought about it? What is your position on love? What is it?  When you love...  Take a notebook. Now write down everything about love; it's characteristics, benefits, everything you can write as nobody is going to read it. Now observe carefully how much it matches with the concept you have learned from the mass media. The concept of love is being distorted by the media for getting benefits. The re are so many myths regarding love.  Myths about love Love at first sight : When you talk about "love at first sight ",you are narrowing the meaning of love. You are talking about the outer beauty of a person which has nothing to do with the goodness of a person. It's so funny that if you see a beautiful statue standing on the road, you fall in love with it. That is all this myth is about. You love a person for his or her uniqueness,for his being as s/he is. You

They too Love...  Do you like animals?  What do you think about them?  Do you have any experience with the animals that you can't forget?  Well, animals are like us, at least in some way. They too feel emotions. I have two experiences to share with you right now.  They too Love When I was about five, I visited my village. For a child who lived in city, a village is an interesting and exciting place visit. I loved it; to wander in farms, beneath open sky, peace, chirping and flight of birds, sunrise and sunset,pure breeze, climbing on trees (I only tried) and plucking fresh fruits, to sit on the bank of canal dipping legs in the water, to observe the frogs in the well, bathing in tubewell water (quite chilled) and the list goes on....  Case 1 We stayed there at my uncle's home. He had a cow for milk with its newborn calf. I used to call it "munnu".It was very cute, I loved it. I used to touch it, quite soft and furry. I used to feed it  with whatever I

The Shining Pearls  The Shining Pearls  Everywhere I look at the world  I find her shining like a pearl  No-one else but every girl  She wants to come forward Yes,of course I heard  She will show you a new face Of the world in each case She is ready to win the race She wants to fly very high  Yes, of course also in the sky  She is developing the nation  Fulfilling all the expectations  Forsaking all the hesitation  She  has the dare to show Yes, of course she can grow... My another blog : mymotive1.blogspot.com