Hopes in Life

A Helping Hand  Do you remember being helped by someone in your life? Your answer will be  "YES" . How did you feel? Good? Grateful?  Would you like to help someone in your life?  If your answer is  "YES"  ,you have realized a great  virtue  of being human. You are grateful for all the help you got in your life. When we were born, we were not even able to survive. Our parents "helped "us👪 A helping hand  to grow and survive. Why we all are engaged in  helping behavior  ? The answer is: No achievement can give us such a satisfaction that we get from helping others.  It increases our self -worth that we are able to make a positive change in the lives of others. I would like to share some personal things about helping behavior. I'm an introvert having only a few number of friends.  But people around me, trust me and share their problems with me because they know I'll listen to them, understand them a...

Now a days...  We all are so busy that we are shrinking in ourselves. We feel that we need nobody.We have mobile, money, computer, technique, many friends and followers on  social media  through which we can entertain us, Make us happy.The conclusion we draw is that we need nobody.  Do you really feel that you need nobody?  Don't you want to share your  happiness   when you achieve something?  Don't you need someone to motivate you when you feel low?  Some people will "Not at all ".But they will get nervous saying or thinking this which means that they too know inside that they are telling a lie. You can't deny the need of a "shoulder to cry on ".Please try to be honest with yourself at least.  A shoulder to cry on  A Shoulder to Cry On  We all face adversities😖 in life. We all cry :some people let you see their tears, some cry when they are alone and some will cry inside without letting anybody know...

Tendency to Trust  How often  has it happened that you trusted someone and your  trust  was not kept😖? What was the impact of that on your mind ?Would you able to trust that person again? Or someone else?  There are two situations : Trusting the same person,  Trusting a new person.  Trusting the same person will be difficult for you as your past memories won't let you do it.  May be that person doesn't want to deceive you but how can you be sure about it? You can  forgive  the person but can't forget your past. What you can learn from this, two things : Tendency to trust and forgive  When you forgive a person, it will  heal   you... That pain of  deception   and if you will keep rendering on the past means you are not allowing the positive things to happen in your life. If you can't forget your past,😢 it will hurt "You",not someone else.  Think before what you do. Things ...

When you love...  "Love" is such a topic we all are interested in.Why? Have you ever thought about it? What is your position on love? What is it?  When you love...  Take a notebook. Now write down everything about love; it's characteristics, benefits, everything you can write as nobody is going to read it. Now observe carefully how much it matches with the concept you have learned from the mass media. The concept of love is being distorted by the media for getting benefits. The re are so many myths regarding love.  Myths about love Love at first sight : When you talk about "love at first sight ",you are narrowing the meaning of love. You are talking about the outer beauty of a person which has nothing to do with the goodness of a person. It's so funny that if you see a beautiful statue standing on the road, you fall in love with it. That is all this myth is about. You love a person for his or her uniqueness,for his being as s/he is. You...

They too Love...  Do you like animals?  What do you think about them?  Do you have any experience with the animals that you can't forget?  Well, animals are like us, at least in some way. They too feel emotions. I have two experiences to share with you right now.  They too Love When I was about five, I visited my village. For a child who lived in city, a village is an interesting and exciting place visit. I loved it; to wander in farms, beneath open sky, peace, chirping and flight of birds, sunrise and sunset,pure breeze, climbing on trees (I only tried) and plucking fresh fruits, to sit on the bank of canal dipping legs in the water, to observe the frogs in the well, bathing in tubewell water (quite chilled) and the list goes on....  Case 1 We stayed there at my uncle's home. He had a cow for milk with its newborn calf. I used to call it "munnu".It was very cute, I loved it. I used to touch it, quite soft and furry. I used to feed it ...