Hopes in Life

Who should be our "Role Model"? We all talk about our ideal or " Role Model  ".But there are some questions like....  Who should be viewed as our role model?  Is it necessary or helpful to make a role model?  I think "Yes".Having a role model really helps us in growing. But the most difficult problem to solve is given in the first question.  No-one is  perfect  . Of course, there are people who can inspire us but in specific areas or aspect of life. What about the other aspects of life? In this way, you need a separate role model for each aspect of life which is going to be the most confusing and time consuming process. You yourself will forget which role model was for which area!😂 Moreover, No two individuals are same in any way whether it is talent, environmental conditions, availability of resources,  personality   and so on.... May be you have the same area of interest with your role model but everything cannot ...

Now a days...  We all are so busy that we are shrinking in ourselves. We feel that we need nobody.We have mobile, money, computer, technique, many friends and followers on  social media  through which we can entertain us, Make us happy.The conclusion we draw is that we need nobody.  Do you really feel that you need nobody?  Don't you want to share your  happiness   when you achieve something?  Don't you need someone to motivate you when you feel low?  Some people will "Not at all ".But they will get nervous saying or thinking this which means that they too know inside that they are telling a lie. You can't deny the need of a "shoulder to cry on ".Please try to be honest with yourself at least.  A shoulder to cry on  A Shoulder to Cry On  We all face adversities😖 in life. We all cry :some people let you see their tears, some cry when they are alone and some will cry inside without letting anybody know...

Who make us feel like a "Failure"? Failure    is something we all talk about. But what exactly do you think failure is? Try to answer some questions : When we feel like a failure  Do you think failure is" not achieving a goal "? When you are not able to achieve your  goals , do you experience the same level of frustration? If "NO",why?  What are the factors which Make you feel that you are a failure?  Everyone will define the term "failure "subjectively, but one thing will be common :Not reaching to the desired goal. But we not always feel the same kind of failure. The factors that can affect the level of  frustration  we feel may be as given below : How important the goal was,  Negative consequences of not achieving the goal, Positive results on achieving the goal,  Feedbacks   from society.  The last factor is the strongest to make us feel a "failure". Who make us feel like a failure?  W...

Why You are not "You"? Do you know yourself?  Do people know you in the same way as you know yourself? Do you live your life as you want to live?  The first question   will be answered in "yes",almost by everyone, though nobody will realize that s/he is telling a lie. I'm not blaming you for this. We know ourselves to the extent we try to know. And we all know how much time we have for this in a busy life.  The second question  will be answered in "No" by almost of the people. One possible reason will be given that nobody is able to understand you. The second one, you feel proud on the way you can make fool of people (many people think so and feel happy about it; though they are not aware weather they are making a fool of people, of themselves, or are being made fool by people; that's another issue),so-called smartness you think. The third option is that you don't have the communication skills to convey to the people what kind of ...